Some dates check all the boxes. The conversation flows, the person is interesting, and you have a good time. No notes. And yet, a few hours later, it’s like it never happened.

When meeting someone “just feels right”, it’s usually because there’s something easy about it and fewer doubts. But the beginnings of a romantic relationship are often complicated by our desire to protect ourselves. A fear of getting too attached too quickly, being “too much”, or projecting expectations onto the other person too soon cause many singles to put up invisible walls.

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