At happn, every conversation is based on a simple, essential principle: mutual respect. And that respect always starts with consent.
What is consent?
Consent is a voluntary, enthusiastic, freely expressed “yes”. It is an unambiguous agreement, made without pressure or insistence. This is the foundation of all healthy interactions, whether in a message, on a date, or concerning physical touch.
Silence is not permission.
Hesitation is not a green light.
“No” always means no.
Consent can change over time. Just because a conversation started, doesn’t mean it has to continue. Everyone can change their mind at any time.
Setting limits (and recognizing the limits of others)
It’s totally normal to say no, slow down, refuse a topic of conversation or a photo. And it’s actually necessary for you to feel comfortable in a discussion.
Setting a limit does not mean slamming a door on the other person.
It means: “here’s what’s ok for me, at this time.”
Respecting that limit means you are listening.
When a relationship starts on a foundation of respect, it has a real chance of being authentic.
Behaviors that count
Certain attitudes help create an atmosphere of trust. They include:
Making sure an exchange is welcome at every step.
Accepting a refusal without asking for an explanation.
Never insist that a person closes up or stops responding.
Remaining attentive to the other person’s tone, pace, and signals.
These things may seem small, but they make all the difference when it comes to dating.
happn’s role
To encourage healthy, respectful communication, we’ve designed the app to protect our users:
No messages without a Crush: interest must be mutual.
No photos via in-app messaging to avoid any unsolicited content.
A confidential reporting system that is accessible at all times.
24/7 moderating to quickly handle any inappropriate behaviors.
Profile certification for added trust, right from the start.
What to remember
Consent is not a formality. It’s what transforms a conversation into a real connection. It’s also what helps us all feel free, respected, and safe.
And going forward...
Take the time to listen, understand, and respect one another. These qualities will make your dating experience more meaningful and authentic - everything happn wishes for you 💙
