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How can I start a conversation with someone?

You can’t talk to another user straight away.


To start a conversation, both users must Like ❤️ each other. In other words, you must have a Crush. To have a Crush, you must Like a person you’re interested in and the other user must have done the same. Then you will be able to start chatting for free.


Instead of Liking the person, you can also send them a FlashNote. The FlashNote is the best way to stand out from the crowd.


So if someone has caught your eye, feel free to send them a FlashNote and maybe you will be able to chat with them!